Saturday, June 26, 2010

Our Little Princess is 3!

Happy Birthday, Ellery!

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I'm a little Princess, and my Daddy loves me.
I'm a little princess and my Mommy loves me.
When they tuck me in to say good-night, they say,
"Good night, Princess Ellery, Good night!"
"Good night, good night, good night sweet Princess,
Good night." "Good night, good night, good night,
good night, good night."


The original version of this song was written and sung by Laurie Berkner. It has animals like frog, tiger, etc. where we replaced them for "princess." At one point, we were singing "Goodnight, Little Superman" for Kiran, but (boo hoo), he has outgrown this! :) Soon afterward a few months ago, Ellery discovered that she could substitute "princess." She asks us to sing it every night. Jeff and I love this!

Well, in case you haven't noticed, we haven't posted a blog just for Ellery in a very long time! Last summer and really this past year has proved to be a very busy one in the life of our family. We are finally settling down some, but blogs and writing down things about our family were some of the things that got left behind in our move, renovations, and pregnancy. Bless Ellery's heart, she didn't even get a blog for her 2nd Birthday. The great thing is that pictures tell wonderful stories and provide memories all on their own. And, one thing we rarely miss is taking lots of photos. Even if you don't see pictures here, you can know they are sitting in iPhoto on my computer awaiting their viewing by the world! For now, our photos are of her 3 year party, 2 year party and a couple other photos. I will try to get more up of the ones we have from the past year of our Sweet Big Girl soon!

Here she is on her 2nd birthday. See how much she's grown!
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To our sweet Ellery:

We love you so very much! We are so proud of you and of the kind and loving girl you are! Here are a few things we want to share with you now and over the past year:

Princess and Pink are the two words that best fit you right now!

Your very favorite books right now are any princess books and Pinkalicious! How fun to combine these for your 3rd Birthday Party. We read, "What is a Princess?" and "Pinkalicious." We played "Pass the Teapot" and danced to some great princess music. Then, we got out our yummy Strawberry cupcakes with Strawberry Cream Cheese frosting with a cherry and sprinkles on top, just like Pinkalicious cupcakes! I have to say, they were pretty awesome! You wore your beautiful, new and pink Princess Dress to the party! When Opal walked in the door, you ran to her, put your arms around her neck, and hugged her for about 2 minutes straight! So sweet! Evergreen and Hannah were very gracious and were willing to help do Princess hair for everyone! You, very matter of factly, decided you did not want them to fix your hair!


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Princesses Opal, Ellery, and Baylan

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Fern, playing "Pass the Teapot." You girls giggled so much during this game. Actually, everyone else giggled. You were serious about getting your piece of candy out of the teapot!

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Our little Southern Belle with her new hat from Sally

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Well, Ellery you have a pretty special Daddy! It was his idea to dress up for your party. What a sweet dance you two had together!

You have spontaneously said to me several times this week, "Thank you for my Princess Party, Mommy, and thank you for the cupcakes!" You are so thoughtful and grateful.

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One day before your party, we asked you a question about it, and one of your responses was, "And all they princesses will be there, Sleeping Beauty, Ariel, Belle, and what is another one in blue?" to which I responded, "Cinderella" and you said, "And Cinderella, . . ." It was so sweet. I just couldn't figure out if you thought the Disney princesses would really be at your party. Apparently, your best friends were the best princesses. You were so glad to see them! You were so gracious at your party and truly were a princess.

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My two adorable princesses!

Ellery, I can't do a 3-year blog for you without talking about your dear and best friend, Opal. You two are incredible together. It has really been almost a year now that you have declared each other as best friends. You simply love being together, and it is totally obvious that you care deeply for each other. I really love seeing the two of you together because I see such a purity in your friendship. It's what friendship ought to be. Ellery, you are so genuine with your thoughts and feelings already in life. What an amazing gift!

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By the way, Ariel is your favorite princess, especially when she is wearing her pink dress!

Some really sweet things you say these days:

"Mommy, I love you soooooooo much!" Then I get a great big kiss! This totally melts me!
"Mommy, you're the best Mommy in the whooooooolllle wide world!"

You LOVES books! You always have. If you are ever really quiet these days, instead of wondering that your are into my bag snatching gum, I assume that you are "reading." You will just sit and look carefully at books for a really long time (at least 30 minutes). I love reading to you. That is special time for us.

Ellery, your favorite foods are cereal "with milk," tomatoes, and anything sweet! You don't like beans all that much. You don't really care for melted cheese - interesting!

You sometimes just sneak in bed beside me in the mornings and lay there. It's so sweet, and I love you snuggling next to me.

I am amazed at how much you have grown in the past year in lots of different ways.

You are an amazing sleeper! When we go in to check on you at night, you are out cold and you seem so rested each morning.

You are interested in some rough play with your brother, and you let him know when you are DONE by a nice, loud fussy sound!

Sweet girl, you are incredible on your scooter (which was Kiran's and now you have claimed as your own)! Everyone is always amazed by how fast you can go. My favorite thing you do with your scooter is lift your left leg at the end of each ride down the street. Another favorite for me is how you ask me to clap for you and say "Woohoo" for each ride! If I forget, you let me know about it.

You love being outside, and you love playing princess inside. We love that you are interested in so many different things. You enjoy singing, finding squirrels and birds outside. You absolutely can't stand spiders and have even had nightmares about them! The horrible shriek of a scream you have let out in the night about spiders sends chills right through me! I'm at the point, though, that after the initial freaking out about the sound, I can calm down more quickly usually knowing that it's just a dream.
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Our pink ballerina princess even at the pool!
You did great in swimming lessons recently and had so much fun!

You are initially quiet when meeting new people. You seem to take everything in about them, and you warm up on your own time. When you do get comfortable, it is obvious by how you start being a little mischievous with the person, or hide from them. You don't let anyone rush you into things. You have a strong and wonderful personality. You are not easily persuaded by others, but you have such a sweet heart. You are often quiet and observant of others, but watch out when you get comfortable, you usually decide to crank up the volume and say whatever you want to say in a really loud voice!

This year you became a Big Sis! You are so sweet with Livvy. You sing to her and talk to her and love on her a lot! You really want to be a helper with her. Sometimes, you seem to go a little overboard with entertainment and get too wild for her. You are a wonderful big sister, and Livvy adores you! She loves to watch you and smiles when she see you!

You are a little stinker at times when it's time for photos. You will do exactly the opposite of what we ask!

You are a little bit of a Momma's girl these days. I have to admit that I am really enjoying it! You like to do lots of things with me and are often content just to sit beside me and read. You like to play more of a game of "come and get me" with Daddy! He has to be more sneaky with getting kisses and hugs. But, when he catches you and is silly with you, you LOVE it! At bedtime, though, Daddy tells me that you are very sweet with him as he sings your princess song, that you like to give him hugs and affection as part of your bedtime routine.

You, just like your brother, love Scooby Doo. I'm pretty sure it's your favorite tv show.

You are getting good at helping clean up your room, with supervision, and other parts of the house. You recently came to me excited about making your bed all on your own, and you did a great job!

You've always enjoyed bath time, and I don't ever have to chase you down like I do your big brother because you are in the tub almost before I get the water running!

You are really funny about music (and always have been)! From about the time you were able to talk, you would fuss when I sang music that you didn't approve of (usually something grownup)! If I sang a kid song, you'd be fine with it. Sometimes, you just didn't want me to sing and wanted to hear the radio. These days, your issues seem to be more about volume. You do not like music that is too loud or too wild. And, you are quite opinionated about it! This is the complete opposite of your brother who loves rockin' out as loud as possible. So, we have to compromise with music on a daily basis in this house!

Ellery Abigail, we are so proud of you. We feel so blessed to have you in our family. It is hard to believe that three years have gone by so quickly. You bring so much joy and laughter to us every day!

Well, there is so much more to say about our big 3 year old, and I will add a few things as I think of them. Below are some things I've written down about Ellery over the past year>


from 3/29
Ellery is such a sweet little girl. One of the last reports of Ellery is how she was always being a little sneaky, finding my gum and chewing it, etc. Well, she still has fun and endearing moments of mischievous (thank goodness!), but she is also becoming quite the sweet young lady. For months, she has been wonderful about saying "thank you" for things spontaneously. For a while, though, she did not want too many hugs and kisses. Now, she is such a snuggler! I love it! She lights up when we spend any one on one time with her talking about anything "pink" or "princess!"

The other day, we were at our favorite gas station, and she said,
"When I grow up, I want to be a Mommy and come here and get gas in my car."

Everything these days is all about, "When I grow up, . . ."

The other day, Ellery specifically asked to call Granna and Cookie on the phone.

Ellery absolutely loves to help me with dishes right now! She asks everyday, "Mom, do we need to wash dishes?"

We love the way Ellery phrases her questions as demands and will be sad the day that she asks appropriately, "Mom, you will get water for me?!" "Dad, you are making me breakfast?" (So, when Kiran started becoming so interested in Star Wars, Ellery got a new nickname: Yoda! She doesn't seem to mind :)

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Ellery is now 2 1/2! As of this past week, she decided to be fully potty-trained! She is doing a great job and is very excited about her big-girl underwear! She asks to go potty all of the time now! She is such a sweetheart! She loves to say "I love you!" She usually comes downstairs in the morning with the biggest smile! She's almost always ready to see her big brother. Just when I think they can't be any more adoring of each other, they do or say something to let me know otherwise. Ellery absolutely loves to sing! She loves Taylor Swift. When we get into the car, she immediately says, "Momma, play my song!" That means, I want to hear "Our Song" by Taylor Swift. For a long time, the next words out of her mouth when the song ended were, "One more time!" She could have listened to it all day, I think. Now, when the song is over, she says, "Now, play brother's song!" Ellery is quite dramatic these days! She uses full hand motions when telling a story or explaining how she feels about something! And her voice gets really high-pitched, and there is nothing quite as adorable! I want to catch her on video, but all of these moments are extremely spontaneous! Maybe one of these days!

Ellery has suddenly taken a liking for milk. Very interesting in our non-milk loving family. She loves Kashi blueberry cereal with milk for almost any meal. She isn't great about eating other meals lately. Toward the end of the meal, we have to beg and plead for her to take each bite.

Ellery sayings:

Laying in bed beside me after coming downstairs on a Saturday morning: "Mom, you're going to make breakfast for us? We were upstairs and we were starving. So we are!"

Ellery has started singing with everyone at church in a high voice. It almost sounds like opera.

At church, she and her best friend, Opal, were sitting together. Ellery said, "I love you." Opal, is touching Ellery's cheeks and whispers, "I love you, too." Then, Ellery says to Opal, "You are SO special to me." Cute. Cute.



Kiran is into everything wild and rough! He wants to wrestle and fight (but he does it in as sweet a way as possible). He will let Ellery tackle him outside, and she loves it!


10/19
Dear Ellery,
We are having so much fun watching you be a happy, sweet, mischievous, and perfectly wonderful 2-year-old! You are becoming such a thoughtful and kind young girl.

We have been so busy the past few months. When you turned 2, we were in TX! You had such a fun time at all of your parties.
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Some of our favorite things you say are,
"Excuse me"
"Well, actually. . ."
To Kurt (while half naked and with K's electric guitar in hand and full hand motions), "I want to play "Rocky Top" but where is Rocky?" Kurt: I put Rocky outside." "Well, I wanted to play Rocky Top for Rocky!" (all very dramatically)
"Guys, wait for me!
You are learning ABCs, saying all kinds of sentences and words. You love singing. A few songs you love to belt out randomly: "Rocky Top," "Happy Birthday to You,"

You can be so gentle and are such an incredible snuggler. In some incredibly adorable ways, you can also be such a stinker- hiding with my bag chewing gum in the bonus potty stall, etc. You can be quiet as a mouse found reading books so sweetly, and you can also be out of control crazy and so amazingly loud. Sometimes, it seems you only know how to talk in an loud voice.


You learn so quickly by watching and listening to others.




So fun to look back at all the ways you have changed and grown as a 2 year old. Now, we are so excited to share your 3-year adventures with you!

Love,
Mom, Dad, Kiran, and Olivia

Friday, June 25, 2010

Baby Time

The past few months have been a time of welcoming Olivia into our family and home. During that time, we have been blessed as with each of our kids' births, to have our TX family come to meet our baby girl and to help us celebrate. They also come to help us take care of big kids, cook, clean and love on us. We are so thankful for this! We have such amazing memories of these times!

The first family member to come and help arrived before Olivia made her entrance! Papa was so incredible to volunteer to help us get more work on the house completed and get our bedroom ready for Olivia. He had already come to work right after we moved (more on this later), so he has given lots of TLC to our house and to us. Thank you Papa!

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Waiting for Papa

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Always a wonderful reunion!

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Reading time, and notice Rocky! He loves it when Papa comes, and he will often sit at Papa's feet.

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Finally ripping up a cable cord off the floor!

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Painting our bedroom! Thank you, Papa, it is beautiful and a perfectly calm place for us and Livvy.

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Hanging drywall in the dining room

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Nice to be able to work together!

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One of the many meals we have eaten in our living room since the renovation process began. Lots of fun memories! We have loved having our dining room back in working order the past few months, though.

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Taking down wallpaper in the bathroom and prepping walls.

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Bedroom before . . .


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And After!!!


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Yea!!!


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Papa with us at the kids' dentist appointment. A fun time of work and play! Thank you, Papa!


Cookie was the first family to meet Olivia when our sweet girl was 3 days old! Cookie is always so wonderful to help us when she comes! She is an amazing multi-tasker and so thoughtful about doing little things that make all the difference! She loved on all our kids and us! She always works to keep the house in excellent shape and get everything caught up before she leaves! It means so much to us! It's so much work for a teacher to leave a classroom full of young kiddos with a substitute for a whole week! It takes tons of prep work before and catching up after, and we are so grateful for the sacrifice Cookie makes to come whenever these babies decide to make their entrances.

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First time together!

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The wonder of a new baby!

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Ellery and Cookie make fun sounds and hear their echos in the distance. Ellery thinks
it's so fun!

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A little late night chatting with Livvy. We had fun watching the Olympics with Cookie each night! It was really fun to have the Olympics going during post-birth, post-op time (definitely planned it that way ;) )

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Love this sweet moment!

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Cookie is a wonderful playmate!

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Saying goodbye is always hard, but we got in some good smiles with our sweet Cookie just before heading to the airport!


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Just thought this was funny from the early days!


Aunt Amanda arrived when Olivia Faith was 10 days old! She had just accepted a new position at work. What a blessing and such a generous gift for her to spend vacation time coming to see us and help out! Amanda was incredible! She played with big kids, cooked, cleaned up the kitchen each night, washed lots of clothes, played some more, and it was really wonderful for me to spend special time with my sweet sister each evening - something we don't get to do very often!
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Precious snuggle time!


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Working together after bath time - hard to believe these tiny babies can demand the help of two grownups sometimes!

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Too sweet!


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Aaahhhhhhh! Ellery is Dr./Nurse E this week!

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Amanda helped Kiran make a Bat Cave - Awesome!!!

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Playing with Lincoln Logs


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Just a sweet moment I caught of my 2 big kids


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Love you, Amanda!



Granna and Grandad (my parents) and Ninny (my grandmother, Dad's mom) arrived when Olivia was 2 Months Old! They had waited a long time to come, and it was a very special time. It was actually perfect timing to spread out the assistance a little and to provide a very welcome break for me after Jeff had returned to work for a while. My grandmother had never been to TN to see us, so it was a huge blessing for her to come! As you will see, the increased number of photos I take with each family visit corresponds directly to the increase in time following Livvy's birth :)


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They arrived on Easter morning which was also Ninny's birthday! So, Mom made cupcakes for her with the kids.

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Meeting Granna

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Olivia and Grandad saying hello.

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Rocking with Ninny



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Playing with Ninny

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Ninny making apricot fried pies - Yum!


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Kiran got a light saber from Granna and Grandad for his birthday, and oh boy, did he have fun playing with Grandad that week!

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It was fun to capture this.

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Time at the park. Grandad can push really high!

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Picnic at the park

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I love pictures of babies in someone's arms/hands.

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Our sweeties on Easter. No, Kiran did not wear his Superman shirt to church, but let me tell you, it is crazy hard to ever get a photo of him in dressy clothes. He will only change into them just before an event, and he is the fastest changer in the world when it comes to getting back into his comfortable favorites!

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Climbing and more climbing!

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Happy Birthday, Ninny!

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Sweet!

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Ellery's favorite - reading books with someone she loves!

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The trees were in full bloom while they were here! And, we've had a year of incredible color with blooms! That was really nice to drive around and see the beauty.

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One of many picnics in our front yard!

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Hunting eggs

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Helping Granna

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The kids just loved getting to spend time with Ninny!

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Playing out front


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Being silly with Granna

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Okay, a little story. This rocker was my great-grandmother's (Ninny's mother). Ninny gave it to me for rocking Livvy. I absolutely love it (you know how much I love rockers), and I especially love this one because it was Ma's. When I received it (back in December), it had a blue and white cover on the cushion, and it was old and needed to be replaced. I found some material and was going to have a friend help me recover it. I had no idea that my grandmother would be coming to visit. When she arrived, I asked if she would help me recover the cushion. She and I spend time together as she completed this project. I tried to watch and learn as she worked on the sewing machine that was Jeff's great-grandmother's (I've had it for several years and am so thankful for it. I do still have a lot to learn! It was really nice to have Ninny's help.) I feel so blessed to have had this special time with my grandmother and to have this wonderful rocker! Livvy and my big kids love it, too! Thank you, Ninny!

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Too sweet!

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Play time with Grandad!

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Fixing meals for Granna

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Drawing with Grandad


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Checking out the birds who are singing early in the morning. The kids loved waking up and finding Ninny already awake each morning! They would go snuggle with her.

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Having Ninny around this week was such a blessing as I haven't spent that much time with her in years! And, watching my kids play with her took me back to the memories I have of her during my own childhood.

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Hard saying goodbye. Ellery actually chased their truck down the road!

I wish I had some photos of all the work Mom, Dad and Ninny did while they were here! The funniest thing and great memories we all have are of the laundry. Laundry, laundry and more laundry! Ninny, Mom and I had so many laughs over this. As soon as we thought the laundry was caught up, we'd see Ninny back by the washer again or folding clothes again. It is crazy keeping up with laundry these days! I'm actually getting better at it now, thank goodness! Mom and Ninny cooked and cleaned, and Dad raked leaves and sticks and swept the porches and walkways! And as you can see, they all loved on the kids! Thanks so much!

As I went back through editing, I was overwhelmed by all of the incredible memories made in the past few months of our lives! We are blessed with amazing families, made up of incredibly generous and caring people. It is an awesome thing to live life surrounded by such love and joy!

The past few years have been such a time of growth for me as we have started our family. I think I have learned more than all of the other years of my life combined. One of the greatest lessons I've learned is that the old adage, "It takes a village to raise a child," really is true. There are so many tasks to complete in a day, so many things to teach a child, so many things to understand about parenting, so many relationships to nourish. There are those times when you really need to be in two (or three) places at once. And, there are days when you just need a break. Thankfully, we have the most amazing friends who provide so much support to us. After living away from family, though, we have come to appreciate every single moment we get with them. We appreciate all they to do help while here, their incredible support when far away, and most of all, the love they have for us and the understanding that their love for us is strong and constant and that in a moment's notice they are available if needed.